Catch A Cheating Wife

Top Tips for Catching your Wife Cheating

Ok so now that you suspect your wife's cheating on you how are you going to catch her cheating?

One of the easiest things to do is keep a record of your wife's comings and goings. Sometimes when we are in denial it’s easy to forget about the little things such as the whispered phone calls where the phone's suddenly put down when she sees you or strange numbers on the caller ID. We forget about the odd receipts from out of town shops or we underestimate the number of days in a month she’s been coming home having been out all day, or just late home from work. If you write everything down you needn’t rely on your memory.

Write everything down - from the times she leaves to the time she comes home, to how you're feeling in the pit of your stomach when she tells you some little story about where she's been. Write down your gut instincts along with any facts that you find out. Make the diary as detailed as possible. Write it down even if it seems insignificant at the time. The insignificant things may add up to reveal a definite pattern.

Whatever you do, keep your diary in a safe place where your wife isn't likely to find it.

There is no point asking your wife outright if she’s cheating on you because she’ll just lie about it any way. If she realises that you suspect her of cheating, it will be even harder to gather evidence because she’ll do a better job of covering it up. She’ll destroy receipts, erase phone records, and more than likely get extremely defensive if you ask her a simple question like why is she late home.

Although it may be very hard, the longer you let your wife cheat the longer you have to collate the evidence to catch your cheating wife. The more the cheater believes they are "getting away with it," then all the more likely they are to slip up and leave incriminating evidence. This all works to your advantage, so if you can, try and hold off letting on that you even suspect that you are living with a cheating wife.

This means that you need to act as normally as possible. Don’t ask your wife anything you wouldn’t have normally asked her before you suspected she was cheating.

Bear in mind that just as you had a feeling deep in your stomach that something just wasn't right with your wife when you first began to suspect her of cheating don't give her the same vibes. Try to act normally around your wife whilst at the same time gathering all the information that you can. Whatever you do, don't start prowling around like a commando under cover or she'll get wind of.

In your effort to avoid letting on that you suspect your wife's cheating, you’ll need to be very careful with any monitoring you do. Don’t let her see you checking receipts or telephone bills or get caught listening in to her conversations.

Another common way to communicate during an affair is through email or instant messaging. Consider it a red flag if your wife opens up a new email account, such as Hotmail where the mail isn't downloaded to your computer via Outlook or similar. Is she checking her email more than usual, is she using it when you're asleep or deleting her emails, stay on guard.

There are various products on the market which help you to monitor what's happening on the computer without letting the user know, they're called Keyloggers.

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